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  • I grew up listening to my mom bemoan everything from the size of her thighs to the shape of her eyes. So you can imagine my dismay the first time someone exclaimed, 'You look just like your mother!'

    So begins You'd Be So Pretty If...: Teaching Our Daughters to Love Their Bodies -- Even When We Don't Love Our Own (Da Capo Lifelong Books, May 2009), former Shape magazine columnist Dara Chadwick's guide to breaking the mother-daughter cycle of bad body image. With humor and compassion, Chadwick uses her own story -- as well as those of the women and girls she interviewed -- to reveal everything from what girls learn when mom diets to the trigger words that can set off a body image crisis. You'd Be So Pretty If... offers fresh and useful strategies to help you build a strong body image foundation for your daughter -- even if your own body is far from what you'd consider "perfect."

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01/30/2009

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I saw those images once before. Personally, I think the models look better BEFORE the re-touching. The after photos look a bit...alien, is the only word I can think of.

Wow. I've never seen this, thanks so much for the link!

I agree with Alyssa- especially once you roll over and then look at the retouched image, the after photo looks a little freaky. I just don't understand why its so NECESSARY to retouch to the extent that they do.

Hi Dara,
Fit and healthy is great. My daughter (12) hasn't really gotten into magazines yet. In fact, she seems happiest with a ball in her hands. And I couldn't be happier. Just yesterday, we were at her brother's basketball game. And I was bringing her over (my wife coaches our son) - and we were running late - and she was trying to hurry me along. She wanted nothing more than to get out on the basketball court - during timeouts and between quarters - just to shoot the ball. Maybe this is different from photo retouching. Or maybe not. Maybe it's about doing what you love, and being happy and okay with it all. And she is. She was thrilled to get there and just be able to shoot a few baskets. Later today, she'll play two games herself. And through it all - she will be positive and upbeat. It's the image she always portrays, and one that I love so much about her. And I wonder if... she would be so happy if she were cutting photos of "perfection" from a magazine - and hanging up as ideals. I'll take what we have now as long as I can get it...

Wow. What an eye opener! I knew they did it, but that really does show you the potential! Great link! Thanks.

~rupal

Alyssa and Sagan, I think it's only when we see those images side by side that we realize just how "unreal" many magazine and advertising photos are. Lance, I love the positive picture you paint of your daughter. She sounds like a terrific kid and a good role model for her friends. Rupal, glad you liked the link :-).

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