About the Book

  • I grew up listening to my mom bemoan everything from the size of her thighs to the shape of her eyes. So you can imagine my dismay the first time someone exclaimed, 'You look just like your mother!'

    So begins You'd Be So Pretty If...: Teaching Our Daughters to Love Their Bodies -- Even When We Don't Love Our Own (Da Capo Lifelong Books, May 2009), former Shape magazine columnist Dara Chadwick's guide to breaking the mother-daughter cycle of bad body image. With humor and compassion, Chadwick uses her own story -- as well as those of the women and girls she interviewed -- to reveal everything from what girls learn when mom diets to the trigger words that can set off a body image crisis. You'd Be So Pretty If... offers fresh and useful strategies to help you build a strong body image foundation for your daughter -- even if your own body is far from what you'd consider "perfect."

« How Important Is What You Wear? | Main | Our TODAY Show Debut »

04/27/2009

TrackBack

TrackBack URL for this entry:
http://www.typepad.com/services/trackback/6a00d834548c0e69e201156f5f9089970c

Listed below are links to weblogs that reference Your Body or Your Life?:

Comments

Feed You can follow this conversation by subscribing to the comment feed for this post.

It's sad, but I think because the ill-effects of smoking don't show up for years -- and as teens their brains cannot yet grasp that long-term concept.

On the other hand: they see the effects of losing weight NOW. I'm not at all condoning it or saying it is right -- but I think that may be part of the reason why.

Definitely something that needs to change. Today, we don't hear so much about the dangers of smoking like we did as teenagers which is too bad.

I continue to be disturbed by the definition of 'healthy'. It continues to be associated with thinness more and more and less with what you eat and how active you are. Thin people are assumed to be healthy regardless of how they obtain/maintain their weight. I recently watched a video on youtube where a girl was, for all intensive purposes, starving herself and getting as more praise than concern because she had lost 80 pounds. Smoking is another weight loss method that we can add to a long list of the unhealthy things people do to achieve the picture of health.

I have to agree with both of the above posts: kids, especially teens, care more about what other people think of them than they do about health or consequences later in life. When 40 seems a long way away, how can they even imagine being 80? And we continue to think of healthy as being thin. We llok at a model or celebrity and we envy her, not knowing that she subsists on coffee and cigarettes. (In fact, Janine Garafolo has lost a bunch of weight recently, and she says she is probably more unhealthy than she's ever been, and smoking more than ever).
We HAVE to stop rewarding this thin-at-all-cost mentality!

Gah, this bothers me so much too! We HAVE to think long term. I wish more people would really think about the consequences of their actions.

Verify your Comment

Previewing your Comment

This is only a preview. Your comment has not yet been posted.

Working...
Your comment could not be posted. Error type:
Your comment has been posted. Post another comment

The letters and numbers you entered did not match the image. Please try again.

As a final step before posting your comment, enter the letters and numbers you see in the image below. This prevents automated programs from posting comments.

Having trouble reading this image? View an alternate.

Working...

Post a comment

My Photo

For the Media

  • Interested in interviewing Dara? Contact Kate Burke at Kate.Burke@perseusbooks.com.

More Dara

  • Fit In Real Life
    Read Dara's archived blog about maintaining weight loss -- without her Shape support team.
  • Dara's Web site
    Learn more about Dara's career as a freelance journalist.
Blog powered by TypePad