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  • I grew up listening to my mom bemoan everything from the size of her thighs to the shape of her eyes. So you can imagine my dismay the first time someone exclaimed, 'You look just like your mother!'

    So begins You'd Be So Pretty If...: Teaching Our Daughters to Love Their Bodies -- Even When We Don't Love Our Own (Da Capo Lifelong Books, May 2009), former Shape magazine columnist Dara Chadwick's guide to breaking the mother-daughter cycle of bad body image. With humor and compassion, Chadwick uses her own story -- as well as those of the women and girls she interviewed -- to reveal everything from what girls learn when mom diets to the trigger words that can set off a body image crisis. You'd Be So Pretty If... offers fresh and useful strategies to help you build a strong body image foundation for your daughter -- even if your own body is far from what you'd consider "perfect."

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06/10/2009

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I really do not agree with all htese realty shows, I think many have really crossed the line.

Hmm. Questionable if this show will help or make things worse- I wonder if there's any hidden motives (for example, to get really thin with trying out the "drastic measures"). I'm with you on What Not To Wear, though!

And congrats on The Rhode Show!

I hate (most) reality TV. You'd think that Ms. Simpson would avoid it, after it ruined her marriage. But then I suppose she needs a job, and doesn't have skills outside of the entertainment industry.
But I think shows like this are dangerous.

I think you you are right to be a little suspect Dara! The concept of what Jessica is trying to do sounds positive, but will it really help the average girl or woman? Good on her for trying though - let's see what she (or should I say the producers) comes up with.

That's very interesting about Jessica Simpson and that proposed reality show. What I hate about celebrities is the fact that if they are a little bigger (or a normal weight) like Jessica Simpson was, as soon as the media starts talking about their weight gain they lose the weight! It would be such a better message to young girls if she would have said, "Screw the media. I'm at a healthy weight for my height and I'm happy with myself that way."

It'll be interesting to see what happens, won't it? Thanks for all the great comments!

Robin, thanks for stopping by and for commenting.

I never liked Jessica and I dislike most reality shows. (Used to watch Shalom In The Home when it was on. And now, despite the controversy, I watch Jon & Kate Plus 8 - what can I say? I love Alexis' alligator obsession and Aaden's curiousity. Heck, they could just change the show to "The Double As" and forget about the rest of the brood. LOL)

Like you, I'm suspect. Jessica seems to be hoping on the bandwagon and not very sincerely. She was never fat. I'm starting to think no one in the media really knows what fat is. (Now if they made ME famous they'd know! 237 pounds here. I'm fat, Jessica is not.) And it doesn't seem to be healthy either. I think it's more likely people will be trying their crazy I Love Lucy scemes to try and look "more beautiful."

Thing is, Jessica is rich. She can afford anything. She doesn't need to use ProActive for her zits, she can afford to have a $1,000 facial every single day. She can go get extra "fat" lipoed off over the weekend. She doesn't really pay any price, emotionally or socially, because she can solve all her problems with money. So who cares what she does on some "reality" show.

Now if the show was about what the normal woman on a normal wage has to go through to get society to accept her, that would be real reality.

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