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  • I grew up listening to my mom bemoan everything from the size of her thighs to the shape of her eyes. So you can imagine my dismay the first time someone exclaimed, 'You look just like your mother!'

    So begins You'd Be So Pretty If...: Teaching Our Daughters to Love Their Bodies -- Even When We Don't Love Our Own (Da Capo Lifelong Books, May 2009), former Shape magazine columnist Dara Chadwick's guide to breaking the mother-daughter cycle of bad body image. With humor and compassion, Chadwick uses her own story -- as well as those of the women and girls she interviewed -- to reveal everything from what girls learn when mom diets to the trigger words that can set off a body image crisis. You'd Be So Pretty If... offers fresh and useful strategies to help you build a strong body image foundation for your daughter -- even if your own body is far from what you'd consider "perfect."

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07/01/2009

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I'm just tired of the fact that nearly every time a person bigger than a size 0 is shown on tv, it's either to lose weight or be made fun of. I refuse to watch this garbage.

I totally hate it too; I found it really offensive - almost making a mockery of those who are overweight but have talent. Why discriminate?! And why give people any more fodder to poke fun at the obese? Definitely not funny in my mind ...

I actually loved it. I felt like those contestants had SO much chutzpah and confidence to get up there and show their (real) talent. When I was much less overweight than they are, I still wouldn't dance out of fear of looking fat or bad. I had tears in my eyes while watching them and felt so inspired! I am a sucker for those shows and DO feel like they are trying to make positive change in their lives. I give it a thumbs up. My husband and I were watching it and nobody was making fun, we were just kind of in awe.

Hadn't heard of this but I agree- it sounds more like a show to make fun of people than to actually encourage exercise.

I watched a little bit, and have mixed feelings. The dancers are GREAT, but I wish it was just a dance show, and less about their weight. They dance, then immediately get up onto a giant scale. It seems kind of humiliating, as if the show is saying "OK fine, you're talented, but what REALLY matters is how much you weigh!!!!!!"

Hey Dara, I haven't seen the show yet but I'm with you on encouraging people to lose weight by having fun and dancing around. Unfortunately there will be people watching just for the humor. I have many clients who stall on starting a gym membership because they feel they are too out of shape to go in there just yet. I would love if some of my clients would realize that exercise is ok for everyone, all shapes and sizes. Maybe this will be a motivator for people that think they are too big to get out and dance, exercise, and have fun getting healthy.

Thanks, everybody, for weighing in on this (no pun intended)!

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